Deceena, thank you for sharing how you and your husband parent with our world! As a parent and former elementary and preschool teacher, I am grateful for people like you who set the standard for what loving guidance and boundaries looks like. Parents can teach their children how to manage their emotions and meet their needs with kindness. Your girls will not be among the entitled, self-centered children whose needs went unmet because they had to learn to soothe themselves. I applaud you both also for showing your daughters this type of honor to one another in your relationship! Sending you love and light from New Hampshire! ~Trish